Breakups are known for the painful suffering involved. And of
course there is going to be pain, there has been a loss that needs to
But most of us aggravate this pain and turn it into
true suffering by failing to accept reality 100%.
Think about how many hours our minds spend going over and over the if
only's, it shoulda been’s, and it coulda been’s.
This keeps us holding onto some reality that just isn’t true
(and sends some of us back to try again!).
But- you won't be able to move on until you fully accept the ONLY fact
that matters: Your ex isn't The One and never will
be the one because they didn't chose you.
Why would you want someone who isn't choosing you?- even if EVERYTHING
else is PERFECT- that one fact ALONE- is the deal breaker.
Your ex may have been close to perfect in every other way- EXCEPT
the thing that matters most: they don’t want to be with you. That's
the deal breaker, my friend. And nothing else matters.
Action Step: The next time you go
through a break up and you’re tempted to turn your pain into outright
suffering, stop torturing yourself with all that was good about the relationship.
Every time your brain goes down that road- say to yourself
"Stop! Obviously, they aren’t the One.
And when I do find the One- they are going to be EVEN better!"
Focus on repeating this fact to yourself and accepting reality
rather than the thoughts of how it could've been. Of course, this is much
easier said than done- but the more you do it, the faster you’ll
be able to let go and move on.
Which means the faster you'll be in your real Prince Charming's
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